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LISA DREHER

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Education reporter for the Laredo Morning Times in the Texas border city of Laredo. Graduated from the University of Texas at Austin in the fall of 2018 with a journalism degree and history minor. Interned at hyperlocal news site, the Austin Monitor, and Austin’s main legacy paper, the Austin American-Statesman. I was a senior news reporter for The Daily Texan, UT’s official college newspaper, for which I have covered state and local politics. Print journalist skillfull in multimedia tools, such as video and audio storytelling using Adobe Suite

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'Afraid to be vulnerable’: A male student opens up about being a sexual assault survivor

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Editor’s note: The name of the source has been changed to protect their privacy.

James wasn’t sure what to think walking back to his apartment after a one-night stand with a man he met on a dating app his freshman year at UT. All he knew was he felt more vulnerable than ever before.

“At first I didn’t classify it as rape because it didn’t feel like rape, but then it was like, ‘What does rape feel like?’” James said. “But if a friend told me that experience, I would probably just say ‘rape,’ but I wouldn’t talk about it. I was afraid to be vulnerable around men for a long time after that.”

As a man, James said he struggles sharing his story because of the stigma that male sexual assault survivors are weak or were not assaulted to begin with.

“It affected who I was fundamentally as a man, because being violated is not necessarily the description of what you would consider a man to (be),” he said.

Thirty-nine complaints alleging sexual assault were filed by men to UT’s Title IX Office for the 2017–2018 academic school year, according to information obtained by The Daily Texan through a Texas Public Information Act request. During the same year, 171 complaints alleging sexual assault were filed by women. 

James said he did not report his incident to police for fear of a long and painful legal process. 

 

Research shows these gaps are consistent with the typical ratio of reports by men and by women, Title IX Office Coordinator Krista Anderson said.

“If someone who is male-identifying has been victimized, the likelihood they’ll likely come forward is greatly reduced because of social norms, cultural norms of men and masculinity,” Anderson said.

Organizations and services such as UT’s Counseling and Mental Health Center, the Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network and the organization 1in6 — which specifically helps male and male-identifying survivors — offer multiple resources such as support groups and hotlines for survivors on campus.

Seth Stewart is the development and communications director for 1in6, named after the statistic that 1 in 6 men will be sexually assaulted or abused.

 

Men often do not come forward because of social norms about masculinity, Stewart said.

“They’ll call it hazing, they’ll call it humiliation,” Stewart said. “Part of that is sort of putting it in a certain box to preserve a certain kind of strength or confidence or masculinity.”

James said he blamed himself for the incident and worked out more to try to fight the idea that he was too weak to fight off the perpetrator. He now does not feel comfortable being alone with men.

“Before it happened to me, I never thought how large a guy could be, how he could overpower me,” James said. “That’s probably a thing that many women think about a lot, but for me, that never was. I started working out a lot after I was assaulted. I think about the fact that I was probably scrawny then … like it was my own fault for not being stronger.”

James said he did not disclose the incident to many friends, and he anticipates mostly negative reactions after sharing because society frames sexual abuse and harassment of men as humorous or not at all something to be taken seriously. 

“For me, I’m bisexual, and I would never talk about this with a girl I was interested in because of masculinity,” James said.

The fact that men are less likely to report being sexually assaulted, as well as typically being the perpetrators of sexual violence on women, both contribute to the discrepancy between reports by men and women, Anderson said.

“I think because we see a higher rates of victimization of women, that in itself is going to be a disproportionate number of complaints from women,” Anderson said. “When we do see men have been victimized in some way, shape or form, they feel less comfortable coming forward. And not that everything is men-on-women (or) women-on-men, we see same-sex violence as well.”

About 15 percent of female UT students and 5 percent of male students reported being raped at UT, according to the 2017 Cultivating Learning and Safe Environments survey.

Men are often are left out of the dialogue about sexual assault, which should include discussion about more men without taking away from women’s experiences, Stewart said.

“There can be — and not all the time of course — sometimes the automatic assumption that men are bystanders watching this happen to women or they’re perpetrators,” Stewart said. “So, thinking about a man as a survivor is not the first place that some people’s minds go to.”

Using alcohol and drugs to cope with sexual assault often occurs during college, Stewart said. James said he drank and used drugs to deal with his trauma.

James said he is currently doing better after time has passed, but he knows the psychological effects will follow him. He hopes more people have empathy, not only when survivors disclose but when they are coping with the trauma in their daily lives following the assault.

“People have a tendency to treat male victims of sexual assault like ‘it’s your fault for not being man enough. It shouldn’t really have affected you that much. Why is this a big deal?’” James said. “Especially if you’re a straight guy, it’s like, ‘You got sex, why are you treating this like it’s a bad thing?’”

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Uber says it will return to Austin if ride-hailing bill passes

  • Writer: Lisa Dreher
    Lisa Dreher
  • May 4, 2017
  • 2 min read

Exactly a year after Uber and Lyft left Austin, Uber said it will return if the state passes a bill turning local regulation of ride-hailing services over to the state.


“If the statewide ride-sharing legislation passes, Uber would come back to Austin under those new regulations,” said Travis Considine, communications manager for Uber Texas. “It would expand everywhere in Texas, actually.”


That legislation, House Bill 100, would overturn an ordinance passed by Austin City Council in December 2015, which requires ride-hailing drivers to submit fingerprints to ensure safety among riders.

Last month the Texas House passed HB 100 with a 110–37 vote.


Lyft could not be reached for comment about the bill.


Uber and Lyft felt the fingerprint requirement was strict and unnecessary and in 2016 brought a proposal to the city to self-regulate their drivers.


Last May, Austin voters opposed this proposition, Proposition 1, by 56 percent, so Uber and Lyft followed through with their promise to leave. Considine said Uber does not require fingerprints because the company takes proper precautions and has plans if there is an incident with a driver.


“There is no silver bullet to background checks,” Considine said. “We have a background check process that is incredibly thorough.”


Considine said Uber does not plan on changing its rates, or how it will regulate its drivers if it returns to Austin without the local regulations.


Computer science freshman Akash Dharamshi said the city’s mandated fingerprint background checks make him feel safer.


“If someone is going to be driving me around and I’m going to be in a car with a stranger basically, I would want the most precaution possible,” Dharamshi said.


Alternative and local ride-hailing companies such as RideAustin, Fare and Fasten flooded the city to fill the void after Uber and Lyft left. Vlad Christoff, Fasten’s co-founder and COO, said the Boston-based company is not worried about losing customers to Uber and Lyft should they return.


“They decided on May 9 to walk away from the city and try to hold it hostage … by leaving a thousand drivers or so without a job,” Christoff said. “I think the city of Austin has embraced the current ride-sharing providers, so when (Uber and Lyft) do come back, I don’t think they’ll be greeted with open arms.”


Hannah Rumbarger, marketing and German sophomore, said following Uber and Lyft’s departure, she has not used other companies because they are not as well known.

“I just always had the impression that Fare and Ride Austin were tackier versions — that as soon as Uber and Lyft left, they just came in so they can make profit off of it,” Rumbarger said.


The Daily Texan also reported in March that Austin Police Department does not see any correlation between Uber and Lyft’s departure and DWI rates, which have been consistent in the past year.


As HB 100 moves along, so has discussion over local versus state control and its consequences. Austin Mayor Steve Adler said during the bill’s testimony, he will continue to fight to keep local control.


“The ability to have that measure of local guidance is important,” Adler said.

 
 
 

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