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LISA DREHER

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Education reporter for the Laredo Morning Times in the Texas border city of Laredo. Graduated from the University of Texas at Austin in the fall of 2018 with a journalism degree and history minor. Interned at hyperlocal news site, the Austin Monitor, and Austin’s main legacy paper, the Austin American-Statesman. I was a senior news reporter for The Daily Texan, UT’s official college newspaper, for which I have covered state and local politics. Print journalist skillfull in multimedia tools, such as video and audio storytelling using Adobe Suite

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'Afraid to be vulnerable’: A male student opens up about being a sexual assault survivor

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Editor’s note: The name of the source has been changed to protect their privacy.

James wasn’t sure what to think walking back to his apartment after a one-night stand with a man he met on a dating app his freshman year at UT. All he knew was he felt more vulnerable than ever before.

“At first I didn’t classify it as rape because it didn’t feel like rape, but then it was like, ‘What does rape feel like?’” James said. “But if a friend told me that experience, I would probably just say ‘rape,’ but I wouldn’t talk about it. I was afraid to be vulnerable around men for a long time after that.”

As a man, James said he struggles sharing his story because of the stigma that male sexual assault survivors are weak or were not assaulted to begin with.

“It affected who I was fundamentally as a man, because being violated is not necessarily the description of what you would consider a man to (be),” he said.

Thirty-nine complaints alleging sexual assault were filed by men to UT’s Title IX Office for the 2017–2018 academic school year, according to information obtained by The Daily Texan through a Texas Public Information Act request. During the same year, 171 complaints alleging sexual assault were filed by women. 

James said he did not report his incident to police for fear of a long and painful legal process. 

 

Research shows these gaps are consistent with the typical ratio of reports by men and by women, Title IX Office Coordinator Krista Anderson said.

“If someone who is male-identifying has been victimized, the likelihood they’ll likely come forward is greatly reduced because of social norms, cultural norms of men and masculinity,” Anderson said.

Organizations and services such as UT’s Counseling and Mental Health Center, the Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network and the organization 1in6 — which specifically helps male and male-identifying survivors — offer multiple resources such as support groups and hotlines for survivors on campus.

Seth Stewart is the development and communications director for 1in6, named after the statistic that 1 in 6 men will be sexually assaulted or abused.

 

Men often do not come forward because of social norms about masculinity, Stewart said.

“They’ll call it hazing, they’ll call it humiliation,” Stewart said. “Part of that is sort of putting it in a certain box to preserve a certain kind of strength or confidence or masculinity.”

James said he blamed himself for the incident and worked out more to try to fight the idea that he was too weak to fight off the perpetrator. He now does not feel comfortable being alone with men.

“Before it happened to me, I never thought how large a guy could be, how he could overpower me,” James said. “That’s probably a thing that many women think about a lot, but for me, that never was. I started working out a lot after I was assaulted. I think about the fact that I was probably scrawny then … like it was my own fault for not being stronger.”

James said he did not disclose the incident to many friends, and he anticipates mostly negative reactions after sharing because society frames sexual abuse and harassment of men as humorous or not at all something to be taken seriously. 

“For me, I’m bisexual, and I would never talk about this with a girl I was interested in because of masculinity,” James said.

The fact that men are less likely to report being sexually assaulted, as well as typically being the perpetrators of sexual violence on women, both contribute to the discrepancy between reports by men and women, Anderson said.

“I think because we see a higher rates of victimization of women, that in itself is going to be a disproportionate number of complaints from women,” Anderson said. “When we do see men have been victimized in some way, shape or form, they feel less comfortable coming forward. And not that everything is men-on-women (or) women-on-men, we see same-sex violence as well.”

About 15 percent of female UT students and 5 percent of male students reported being raped at UT, according to the 2017 Cultivating Learning and Safe Environments survey.

Men are often are left out of the dialogue about sexual assault, which should include discussion about more men without taking away from women’s experiences, Stewart said.

“There can be — and not all the time of course — sometimes the automatic assumption that men are bystanders watching this happen to women or they’re perpetrators,” Stewart said. “So, thinking about a man as a survivor is not the first place that some people’s minds go to.”

Using alcohol and drugs to cope with sexual assault often occurs during college, Stewart said. James said he drank and used drugs to deal with his trauma.

James said he is currently doing better after time has passed, but he knows the psychological effects will follow him. He hopes more people have empathy, not only when survivors disclose but when they are coping with the trauma in their daily lives following the assault.

“People have a tendency to treat male victims of sexual assault like ‘it’s your fault for not being man enough. It shouldn’t really have affected you that much. Why is this a big deal?’” James said. “Especially if you’re a straight guy, it’s like, ‘You got sex, why are you treating this like it’s a bad thing?’”

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Community Development Commission grapples with CodeNEXT

  • Writer: Lisa Dreher
    Lisa Dreher
  • Jul 27, 2017
  • 3 min read

The Community Development Commission voiced frustration over lack of outreach and discussion with the CodeNEXT team during a special called meeting earlier this month.

The first draft of CodeNEXT, Austin’s land code rewrite, has been out since January, but some commissioners felt the team excluded lower-income families and individuals from the dialogue.



Tensions brewed when the team presented the idea of density bonuses, which are incentives for developers to add more units in a building for families with a lower median income.

Ian Carlton, a consultant for ECONorthwest who is helping with CodeNEXT, said affordable housing units are aimed at families who make 60 to 80 percent of the median family income. Carlton said CodeNEXT will encourage expanding density bonuses to the majority of Austin in dense areas where affordable units could squeeze in.


“This is about putting affordable housing in areas of very high opportunity where development is already happening at a very low cost burden to the city of Austin,” Carlton said.


Commissioner Bertha Delgado, who was appointed in March and whose district represents East Austin, said she was uncomfortable making decisions concerning CodeNEXT because she was unfamiliar with its effects on lower-income families. Delgado also asked for the number of pages in the draft. Consultant Lisa Wise answered it is 1,200 pages.


“Now that (East Austin is) being titled as Central Austin, I have seen that this bonus program is going to affect my area the most,” Delgado said. “We still are needing that information out there in the community. I am not an expert or a professional engineer to be able to present this to the community and talk the language that’s being spoken here today.”


Planning and Zoning Director Greg Guernsey said the team has reached out to East Austin, but Delgado kept firing accusations that the team did not communicate with Delgado’s district of elders and lower-income families unable to track the process. Guernsey said the team has reached out to her area, held meetings in Spanish and provided transportation to meetings.


“We have gone to every district for every meeting,” Guernsey said. “We’ve had meetings on the text itself where we went all over Austin. We will continue to try to reach out to the community.”


Commissioner Rosanne Singer, who represents South Austin, was agitated that she is only now hearing of the goal to house families who make 60 to 80 percent of the median family income. Commission Chair Gilberto Rivera pushed the team to lower the minimum percentage to 30 or 40 percent, so more families of even lower income may qualify for affordable housing.


Rivera said gentrification is pushing lower-income families out of the city in favor of wealthy “hipsters,” and mixing lower-income families in units with wealthier residents is better than relocation.


“I question whether we have the ability to help the people that need it the most, which is the poorest families in Austin,” Rivera said. “I can guarantee you they’re not going to be too upset if they have a hipster above them because they will have a healthy home to live in.”

Rivera then called “Imagine Austin” “Imagine Austin without poor people.”


Wise said lowering the minimum median family income is a policy discussion to consider. Lowering the MFI minimum could ultimately lead to the creation of less affordable units because the rent cost would need to be lower to accommodate those families, she added.


“So it’s about profit,” Rivera said. “Just say profit, it’s not a dirty word.”


Wise said CodeNEXT is meant to make affordable housing development easier, and that lowering the threshold does not help developers if they cannot cover the cost. The commission voted to table the item for further discussion.


 
 
 

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