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LISA DREHER

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Education reporter for the Laredo Morning Times in the Texas border city of Laredo. Graduated from the University of Texas at Austin in the fall of 2018 with a journalism degree and history minor. Interned at hyperlocal news site, the Austin Monitor, and Austin’s main legacy paper, the Austin American-Statesman. I was a senior news reporter for The Daily Texan, UT’s official college newspaper, for which I have covered state and local politics. Print journalist skillfull in multimedia tools, such as video and audio storytelling using Adobe Suite

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'Afraid to be vulnerable’: A male student opens up about being a sexual assault survivor

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Editor’s note: The name of the source has been changed to protect their privacy.

James wasn’t sure what to think walking back to his apartment after a one-night stand with a man he met on a dating app his freshman year at UT. All he knew was he felt more vulnerable than ever before.

“At first I didn’t classify it as rape because it didn’t feel like rape, but then it was like, ‘What does rape feel like?’” James said. “But if a friend told me that experience, I would probably just say ‘rape,’ but I wouldn’t talk about it. I was afraid to be vulnerable around men for a long time after that.”

As a man, James said he struggles sharing his story because of the stigma that male sexual assault survivors are weak or were not assaulted to begin with.

“It affected who I was fundamentally as a man, because being violated is not necessarily the description of what you would consider a man to (be),” he said.

Thirty-nine complaints alleging sexual assault were filed by men to UT’s Title IX Office for the 2017–2018 academic school year, according to information obtained by The Daily Texan through a Texas Public Information Act request. During the same year, 171 complaints alleging sexual assault were filed by women. 

James said he did not report his incident to police for fear of a long and painful legal process. 

 

Research shows these gaps are consistent with the typical ratio of reports by men and by women, Title IX Office Coordinator Krista Anderson said.

“If someone who is male-identifying has been victimized, the likelihood they’ll likely come forward is greatly reduced because of social norms, cultural norms of men and masculinity,” Anderson said.

Organizations and services such as UT’s Counseling and Mental Health Center, the Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network and the organization 1in6 — which specifically helps male and male-identifying survivors — offer multiple resources such as support groups and hotlines for survivors on campus.

Seth Stewart is the development and communications director for 1in6, named after the statistic that 1 in 6 men will be sexually assaulted or abused.

 

Men often do not come forward because of social norms about masculinity, Stewart said.

“They’ll call it hazing, they’ll call it humiliation,” Stewart said. “Part of that is sort of putting it in a certain box to preserve a certain kind of strength or confidence or masculinity.”

James said he blamed himself for the incident and worked out more to try to fight the idea that he was too weak to fight off the perpetrator. He now does not feel comfortable being alone with men.

“Before it happened to me, I never thought how large a guy could be, how he could overpower me,” James said. “That’s probably a thing that many women think about a lot, but for me, that never was. I started working out a lot after I was assaulted. I think about the fact that I was probably scrawny then … like it was my own fault for not being stronger.”

James said he did not disclose the incident to many friends, and he anticipates mostly negative reactions after sharing because society frames sexual abuse and harassment of men as humorous or not at all something to be taken seriously. 

“For me, I’m bisexual, and I would never talk about this with a girl I was interested in because of masculinity,” James said.

The fact that men are less likely to report being sexually assaulted, as well as typically being the perpetrators of sexual violence on women, both contribute to the discrepancy between reports by men and women, Anderson said.

“I think because we see a higher rates of victimization of women, that in itself is going to be a disproportionate number of complaints from women,” Anderson said. “When we do see men have been victimized in some way, shape or form, they feel less comfortable coming forward. And not that everything is men-on-women (or) women-on-men, we see same-sex violence as well.”

About 15 percent of female UT students and 5 percent of male students reported being raped at UT, according to the 2017 Cultivating Learning and Safe Environments survey.

Men are often are left out of the dialogue about sexual assault, which should include discussion about more men without taking away from women’s experiences, Stewart said.

“There can be — and not all the time of course — sometimes the automatic assumption that men are bystanders watching this happen to women or they’re perpetrators,” Stewart said. “So, thinking about a man as a survivor is not the first place that some people’s minds go to.”

Using alcohol and drugs to cope with sexual assault often occurs during college, Stewart said. James said he drank and used drugs to deal with his trauma.

James said he is currently doing better after time has passed, but he knows the psychological effects will follow him. He hopes more people have empathy, not only when survivors disclose but when they are coping with the trauma in their daily lives following the assault.

“People have a tendency to treat male victims of sexual assault like ‘it’s your fault for not being man enough. It shouldn’t really have affected you that much. Why is this a big deal?’” James said. “Especially if you’re a straight guy, it’s like, ‘You got sex, why are you treating this like it’s a bad thing?’”

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Austin partakes in global Women’s March following inauguration protests

  • Writer: Lisa Dreher
    Lisa Dreher
  • Jan 21, 2017
  • 3 min read

Update: The final estimated attendance is over 50,000, according to the Austin Women's March Facebook page.



Photo Credit: Rachel Zein | Daily Texan Staff

Original story: Austin’s streets were crowded again Saturday as tens of thousands joined the global Women’s March movement the day after inauguration protests swarmed the city.

At noon, more than 40,000 marchers, according to APD, converged on the State Capitol’s south lawn to promote reproductive rights, safety from harassment and equality in the economy among other priorities.


The election of President Donald Trump prompted the main Women’s March on Washington at the Capitol, with 500,000 marching and inspiring 616 sister cities to demonstrate, according to the Washington Post.


“This is the beginning, not the end of standing up to this administration,” U.S. Rep. Lloyd Doggett, D-Texas, said at a 2 p.m. rally at the Capitol. “With the leadership of women joined by their male allies … we need to march (and) we need to rally every single day.”


According to its website, the Women’s March movement supports marginalized groups besides women, including people of color, immigrants, the disabled and LGBT people.

Doggett denounced the new administration and Texas Senate Bill 6, which requires transgender individuals to use the bathroom reflected on their birth certificate in public schools and government buildings.


Some marchers were stuck behind the Capitol’s gates because so many people were trying to exit. Maracas, a cowbell and a bass drum resounded a rhythm propelling participants forward, and signs saying “Hear our voice” and “Come and take it” with a drawing of a uterus were among the crowd.


Marchers wore hot pink hats with ears, called “pussy hats,” created for the Women’s March as symbols of solidarity for women.


UT alumna Meagan Moore was wearing a pussy hat and said Trump’s “grab them by the pussy” comment hit close to home because she knows people who have been sexually assaulted.


“What was more infuriating (was) the response to (Trump’s comment) like ‘oh that’s just locker room talk,’” Moore said. “My mom and all three of her sisters have been sexually assaulted, and I have multiple friends that have been sexually assaulted, so it’s very real to me.”


Radio-television-film senior Jackie Hernandez said she represented fellow Mexican-American women and also wore a “gay ok” shirt to support the LGBT community. Hernandez said her parents were immigrants as well.


“I wanted to support as many different causes as I could,” Hernandez said.

Paula Buls, the first openly transgender UT graduate from the School of Social Work, was topless because she wanted to bring attention to the transgender community.

“I think (being topless is) just part of visibility,” Buls said. “The issues like Senate Bill 6, potentially forcing us to use restrooms with men, (is why) I want visibility for trans women.”

Planned Parenthood was almost removed from Texas’ Medicaid program Saturday by state legislators but now has till Feb. 21 to be heard in court again. Plan II History junior Grace Gilker volunteered for Planned Parenthood in high school and said the health provider is irreplaceable.


“The relief that Planned Parenthood provides for people, not just in terms of health care, but in terms of family planning and their price point, it’s really just providing a service that, at least in Texas, the government isn’t taking care of,” Gilker said.


The Women’s March Global is the international equivalent which shares the overall campaign’s slogan “Women’s rights are Human Rights,” according to its website.

Public relations sophomore Kate Sanchez said the support from all walks of life to resist Trump’s policies in her own country is inspiring.


“Seeing little 8-year-olds saying ‘if Trump builds a wall, we’ll tear it down’ … filled me with hope, with overwhelming hope,” Sanchez said.

 
 
 

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